Trepidation vs. Excitement

I woke up this morning thinking about the huge anxieties that exist in the lives of my family, friends and co-workers today:

  • loss of income (from both plunging retirement accounts and uncertainty in jobs)
  • change of jobs (because of restructuring or downsizing)
  • family expansion on the horizon
  • relocations
  • intense competition on “must win” programs
  • pending retirements
  • unexpected bills
  • recurring illnesses
  • rapidly changing priorities

And as I look at this list, I can sense the fear for some and the great uncertainty in others.  And in many of these areas, I can share intimate stories about my own concerns and how some of these may be affecting me very personally.

But as I look at myself and watch others, I see a very thin line between trepidation and sheer excitement. 

For some, the uncertain future in a job brings great stress and huge fears about their future.  For others, a forced transition is a welcome release from one journey and the opportunity to jump on another. 

For some, the tension of a “must win” competition brings sleepless nights and worries beyond belief.  For others, that same event brings eruptions of confidence (not arrogance) and a team spirit that radiates with a “we’re the best team for this job” mentality.

For some, the changing priorities and the reductions in family spending create great discomfort and drive separation between those affected by any of the changes.  For others, the changes bring bonds of love and trust beyond belief and create everlasting memories of the sacrifices made during those tense times of economic distress.

Ultimately, we have a choice of how we will view any of the challenges we face today.  Will we let fear drive our attitudes and our response?  Or will we use excitement fueled by faith and confidence to overcome barriers, conquer the fear driven demons, and reach new heights in our own lives even in times of great adversity?

We all succumb to fear at times.  But lurking just beyond that fear is that burst of excitement that could launch us forward and bring those smiles that we all so desperately need.

Let’s seek out and latch on to that excitement together!

One Response to “Trepidation vs. Excitement”

  1. OC_Marc on 14 Apr 2009 at 10:30 pm #

    Isn’t the ability to navigate the peaks and valley’s one of the secrets to abundant life? Your thoughts on trepidation vs. excitement made me think of the verse…..I know how to live in poverty or prosperity. No matter what the situation, I’ve learned the secret of how to live when I’m full or when I’m hungry, when I have too much or when I have too little. (Phil 4:12)

    Paul states that he has learned the secret. I am starting to realize/think the secret has to do with our ability to locate an anchor point (Christ) in the midst of a storm to focus on; so the ups and downs do not have as much effect. The next verse says,”I can do everything through Christ who strengthens me.” It seems like we all are looking for the way to stabaize our lives but I am thinking that we should try and anchor ourselves through Christ so we are indifferent to the ups and downs of life. Easier said than done….and I guess that is why Paul said it is a secret.